Valence decodes your ex's mixed signals, tracks your no-contact streak, and catches you before you break. Three AI coaches. One app. Built for the part of recovery no one talks about.
iPhone, iPad. Android in active rollout.
5 questions. No email required. Instant result.
No single voice fits every stage of a breakup. Valence gives you three. Switch between them based on what you actually need right now.
For the 3am spirals and the urges to text. Calms the body, slows the panic, stops the relapse before it starts.
For the mixed signals, the silence, the sudden message. Names what they're doing and why. No comfort. Just clarity.
For the day you stop replaying it. Builds the version of you they don't get to know. Identity work, not affirmations.
Breakup recovery isn't linear. It's a loop of urges, breaches, false progress, and silent wins. Valence makes the loop visible.
Each day logged. Each breach honest. Just a mirror.
When it hits, what triggered, what you did instead.
Paste their message. Get the actual read.
Catches the spiral before it costs you another 30 days.
The 11pm spike. The Sunday dip. Patterns made visible.
One tap when your finger hovers over their name.
Write what you can't say. No record. No send.
A note from the version of you who's already healed.
Your journey on one side. Theirs on the other.
Morning anchor. Evening review. Habits that compound.
Articles + exercises. Box breathing, urge surfing, more.
The 2am conversation you'd pay $150/hr for.
It's been very effective it changed my life, and now I'm happier.
I bought the monthly. I'm switching to lifetime. This app gave me the consistency I needed.
Pretty good for those who can't really control themselves :)
The mood analysis, the solutions it generates, the precision of its guidance — phenomenal.
Free to download. Premium unlocks the AI coaches and full pattern decoder. 3-day trial included. Lifetime option available.