AI Breakup Recovery System

They broke it.
Not you.

While you stay silent, your ex moves through predictable stages. Valence maps both journeys.

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Take the 60-second quiz → meet your coach
Valence app — no-contact day counter home screen
Tap a situation — a coach answers. Inside the app, coaching runs on your full story: day count, risk map, mood history.
60-second quiz

Find your coach.

5 questions. No email. Instant match — and a first message from your coach.

~60 seconds · 5 questions
Which AI coach fits you?
The Stabilizer, The Strategist, or The Rebuilder. Answer honestly — the match is instant.
On their side

The loop you can't see —
made visible.

Breakups don't run on feelings. They run on phases. While you count days, your ex is moving through a sequence most people never get to watch.

A pattern, not a prophecy — mapped to your own no-contact timeline inside the app.
Three voices

Coaches that learn
your story.

A 60-second quiz reads your situation and matches you with the voice you need right now. Switch anytime.

The Stabilizer

Calm · Ground · Breathe
The pull to reach out is strong tonight. Sit with it for 90 seconds — it's a wave, and waves recede.

The Strategist

Decode · Position · Hold
A story view out of nowhere is not an accident. It's a temperature check. Don't answer it — bring it to me first.

The Rebuilder

Build · Train · Become
The ex is irrelevant. The only question on today's agenda: what's the next rep?
Each coach knows your day count, stability score, risk patterns and mood history. Every answer is about your situation — never a template.
The system

Built for the worst moments,
not for quotes.

No generic affirmations. No empty streaks. A recovery system that tracks what actually happens — and adapts.

Risk Map

Log a trigger or urge in 30 seconds. A personal heatmap shows exactly when you're most likely to break — before it happens.

Daily flow

Check in, complete three personalized moves, close the day with your coach. Mornings pick up where last night left off.

Weekly AI report

Stability trends, urge levels, breach analysis and a strategy from your coach — six sections, built from your own week.

SOS mode

Guided breathing, your own reasons on the wall, and your coach one tap away. For the moment the urge feels bigger than you.

Start tonight

Stop fixing what they broke.
Start tracking the pattern.

Free to start. 60-second quiz. Your coach is waiting with a read on where they are right now.

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